Podcast

Managing Grief Through Mindfulness

Jan 14, 2025

Ep. 032 with Kristina Strong

Today, I had the heartfelt opportunity to speak with Dr. Christina Strong, a personal resilience and self-compassion coach. As a mother and someone who has navigated the turbulent waters of grief, I was eager to learn from her experiences and insights on mindfulness and healing.

 

Embracing the Journey of Grief

 Dr. Strong’s journey through grief began with the profound loss of her husband. She bravely shared how this life-changing event pushed her into a deep exploration of mindfulness. For me, hearing her story was like a warm embrace, reminding me that we are not alone in our grief. After all, many of us have faced the devastating impact of loss, and finding peace in grief can feel like an insurmountable challenge.

 When we talked about what it meant to be a mother while grieving, Dr. Strong reflected on her role as a parent to her son. She emphasized that being a mother is her most important job, even amidst the chaos of grief. Her journey has been about balancing the responsibilities of motherhood with the emotional weight of her loss. As a mother myself, I resonated deeply with her determination to find ways to support her child while also allowing herself the space to grieve.

 

Mindfulness as a Healing Tool

One of the key themes in our conversation was the power of mindfulness in coping with grief. Dr. Strong explained how she turned to mindfulness not only to help her clients but also to save herself during her darkest days. Mindfulness became a lifeline, a way to ground herself and process her emotions. This resonated with me as I've often found that taking a moment to breathe and be present can transform overwhelming feelings into manageable ones.

Dr. Strong described mindfulness as being aware of our internal and external landscapes—recognizing our thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations. It’s about pausing, centering ourselves, and listening to what’s going on within us. As she shared her journey, I felt a sense of calm wash over me. It’s a reminder that in our moments of pain, we can find solace by simply being present.

 

The Complexity of Relationships

As we delved deeper into her experiences, Dr. Strong opened up about the complicated relationships she had with her mother and stepfather, both of whom she lost in quick succession before her husband’s passing. She navigated this intricate web of grief, recognizing that each relationship brought its own set of challenges and complexities. This struck a chord with me, as I know that many of us carry complicated feelings about our loved ones, especially when they are gone.

Dr. Strong spoke with compassion about her mother, acknowledging the difficulties they faced in their relationship. She emphasized the importance of forgiveness and understanding, which ultimately allowed her to find peace in her memories of her mother. I reflected on my own relationships and how grief can sometimes complicate our feelings, adding layers that we must untangle in our journey toward healing.

 

Traditions that Honor Our Loved Ones

A particularly poignant part of our conversation focused on how Dr. Strong and her friends maintain traditions to honor her husband’s memory. Every year, they gather for camping trips, a ritual that keeps his spirit alive. As she described the laughter and stories shared around the campfire, I could almost feel the warmth of those memories. It’s a beautiful reminder that our loved ones may be gone, but their legacy continues through the love and joy we share with others.

In my own life, I have found similar solace in creating traditions that honor those we have lost. Whether it’s lighting a candle on special occasions or gathering with friends to reminisce, these acts help me feel connected to those I cherish. Dr. Strong’s insights reinforced the idea that grief can coexist with joy, and that celebrating our loved ones can be a powerful part of the healing process.

 

The Importance of Community Support

Throughout our discussion, Dr. Strong emphasized the vital role of community in her healing journey. She shared how her friends rallied around her during her most challenging moments, offering support and understanding without judgment. This sense of community is crucial for anyone navigating grief. It can be easy to feel isolated in our pain, but having a supportive network can make all the difference.

As a mother, I understand the importance of nurturing connections. In my own experience, having friends who are willing to sit with me in my sorrow has been invaluable. It’s not always about having the right words to say; sometimes, it’s simply about being present and allowing each other to feel.

 

Cultivating Self-Compassion

Dr. Strong’s journey also highlights the significance of self-compassion in the grieving process. She spoke candidly about the guilt that can come with grieving, especially as a parent. The pressure to “move on” can feel overwhelming, but she reminded me that it’s essential to be gentle with ourselves. Grief is not a linear journey, and each person’s path is unique.

In my own life, I’ve learned that it’s okay to not have all the answers or to feel joy and sadness simultaneously. Embracing self-compassion allows us to honor our feelings without judgment. Dr. Strong’s wisdom encouraged me to continue nurturing that kindness within myself as I navigate my own journey of healing.

 

Conclusion: Finding Peace in Grief

As our conversation drew to a close, I felt a profound sense of hope. Dr. Christina Strong’s journey is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of mindfulness, community, and self-compassion. She reminded me that while grief is a heavy burden, it can also lead us to unexpected places of peace and connection.

For anyone grappling with the complexities of grief, I hope you find comfort in knowing that you are not alone. Embrace the moments of joy, honor the memories of your loved ones, and allow yourself the grace to grieve. Together, we can navigate this journey with love and compassion, finding peace in the midst of our sorrow.

Thank you, Dr. Strong, for sharing your story and your wisdom. Your insights will undoubtedly resonate with many who are seeking solace in their grief.

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